What Is The Air Force Like For Women?

I know this is particularly irrelevant, & i would not like to be labeled as only interested in vanity affairs, however I am curious about the routine of a woman in air force service.
I understand basic training must be tough if not physically fit, for men & women.
& I’m sure I should be having conversation with a recruit officer, before I type all these questions online, it’s just I’d like to talk to ordinary people, people not making a living from buttering me up, and jazzing every single sector of service training till it’s been manipulated into something it obviously will not be.
Just a few questions, and please feel free to interject with concerns, or additional, more relevant information. I’m glad to hear it all.
For one, what is it like to do your hair?
Have you found that it is much more convenient to chop it all off, because I am certainly willing to do so. My hair is of moderate to longer length, is full of body, but not overdominatingly wavy.
I sort of just toss my hair into some sort of a neat bun almost every day, however, I am aware in the air force, it must be tight and kept, & almost example of pure perfection. Do you learn to pin you bun up so well?
What about facial waxing, is there ever time after Basic Training to do so?
Do you really take showers with all those women?
& how upon meeting with your recruit officer do you know what career you’d prefer to choose.
I’m nineteen with one year of college under my belt. I am absolutely passionate about education. Embarrassingly enough, perhaps not passionate enough. I fell below the standards of the state grant that I earned, which is a 3.0 , and now I’m stuck in a bind with $14,000 to pay back the government. I really stuck it to myself. I want nothing more than self motivation, but I only think joining the force will align guidelines for me to tap into myself personally & extract the attributes which I happen to be so fond of.
If I had no other alternative but to choose today, my field of choice, it would be psychology ( Scientifically speaking, not clinical work )
Or something medically involved such as physical therapy.
Also wouldn’t mind working day in an out to become an optimotrist, podiatrist, or perhaps a dental assistant.
I might as well be fresh out of high school. I’ve taken many mandatory science classes, & although I cannot say I’m phenominal in the field, it thoroughly interests me. I willing to work harder than I’ve ever given myself credit to achieve possible.
Your comments would mean much to me, thanks.